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Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - I Lost Me in My Marriage

Question: I have been married for 10 years and to make my marriage work, I have changed a lot of things about myself. The problem is I don’t feel like me anymore – I feel like a shell of who I was, as if I gave away all of my power to make my husband happy. There has to be a balance that I am missing. Answer: Wow my love, I totally hear you. I’ve done the same. I would even cut the vegetables the way my first husband wanted so as not to be yelled at. I would hide my excitement if I got an audition, because he’d tell me don’t count your chickens before they hatched. My second husband, my son’s father, would (still) go to any new school, team, group, etc and tell them how crazy I was. I couldn’t figure out why people were so standoffish until 6 months into it, he raged at them for something and revealed his true nature. I became so doubtful, self critical, afraid of the world. So many of us pretzel ourselves into this crazy inauthentic configuration just to get attention, appreciation...

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - She’s Way Too Good For Me!

The woman you are dating is a knock-out!  You can’t figure out what you did to have the universe grant you not only the sight of this goddess, but her love, devotion, and admiration.  You keep pinching yourself because it all seems to good to be true. The problem is you keep pinching yourself, questioning your luck, wondering why you – so much to the point of insecurity, self-doubt, and judgment.  The first step is to stop making her opinion be the source of your self worth.  Yes, she may be a magnificently delicious goddess but she farts just like the rest of us! To see my full response, check out the full article on The Good Men Project, right  HERE . As their newest columnist, you can continue to find amazing articles likes this and more so continue to check out my column Awaken Your Badass Nobility. You can many of my Q&A videos on YouTube, so please be sure to subscribe to  my channel ! Also, If you have a burning question about love, dat...

Morgana - I slayed another Monster today…

Why I slayed a new Money Monster today. Life is great. I love my new house. I’m traveling the world with my husband. My clients are rocking it. And I could feel a shift inside myself. Something wasn’t feeling right. I know, from experience, that if I don’t address what’s going on inside, those inner issues WILL show up in my life, and in my bank account… to get my attention. I prefer to answer the call before things get ugly. Here are some signs it’s time to slay a monster: You’re having trouble hearing and/or feeling your “Money Honey.” You feel an anxiety and a dread building up in your chest. The people who want to work with you are dropping out or having trouble finding the funds. You find yourself obsessing over world problems (human trafficking, animal abuse, racism, rape culture, climate change, corporate greed… You feel like contracting and playing it safe. If one of more of these is true for you, it may be time to do a little monster hunting for the Root Cause beh...

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - In Love With My Best Friend

She confides in you, she trusts you, you have been her best friend as long as you can remember.  What do you do when you begin to fall for her but she can’t see you as anything but a friend? As her best friend, she tells you that just can’t find anyone that will make her happy.  She lists all of the characteristics that she would love in her “dream guy”.  Secretly, you are screaming “I’m right here!  I am all of those things and more!  You are describing me.”  The question that I have for you is this:  What’s stopping you?  Can you live with settling for a friendship instead of taking a risk (which may give you everything you ever wanted?) To see my full response, check out the full article on The Good Men Project, right  HERE . As their newest columnist, you can continue to find amazing articles likes this and more so continue to check out my column Awaken Your Badass Nobility. You can many of my Q&A videos on YouTube, so please...