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IntimacyExpert - Crazy about Buddy’s Ex-Girlfriend

Question: I am completely insane for my buddy’s ex-girlfriend.  They broke up a year ago and he is dating someone else.  What should I do?  Should I go for it? Answer: What are you waiting for?  It’s been a year!  Are you hesitant because you fear he will be upset?  If your friend has moved on, the best thing to do is have an open conversation with him.  You do not need to ask for permission but just be straightforward and clearly voice your concerns.  Acknowledge the history of the relationship and your respect for it and voice your intentions. To see my full response, check out the video and full article on Digital Romance, right  HERE . You can also find this video and many other on YouTube, so please be sure to subscribe to  Digital Romance TV Also, If you have a burning question about love, dating or life in general for me, comment below, or ask me on Twitter  @AllanaPratt  and just use #AllanaQand...

IntimacyExpert - Are We Ready To Live Together?

Question: I am 57 years old and only have 3 more years until retirement.  My “friend” wants me to settle down with him once I retire.  We’ve been together for almost 5 years and he really wants to get married.  My daughter thinks we should be in the same area together before moving in together.  What do you think? Answer: The fact your daughter is concerned may give the notion that there isn’t a clear understanding of your relationship with this individual.  You call him your “friend”; yet, you have spoken of marriage.  Could it be that “friend” is the term you choose to use while dating?  If so, the best way to proceed is with an open conversation of expectations.  Ensure you are on the same page about everything before merging your lives. To see my full response, check out the video and full article on Digital Romance, right  HERE . You can also find this video and many other on YouTube, so please be sure to subscribe to...