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Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Intimate Conversations with Sarah Jones

This week on Intimate Conversations Live, I have the pleasure of talking with Sarah Jones!   Sarah deeply enjoys analyzing the nebulous world of women and chemistry and translating it into scientific sequences and frameworks for her readers, students, and clients. You certainly do not want to miss  Intimate Conversations  this Thursday, as Sarah and I share our views on “Introverted Alphas,” and so much more!  To learn more about Sarah, please visit  http://ift.tt/1BpRbQy . The post Intimate Conversations with Sarah Jones appeared first on Allana Pratt . via Allana Pratt http://ift.tt/1J6GqsT

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Wishful Thinking – What Women Want in Bed

Let’s put one myth to rest – women love sex just as much as men! We just may need a little more time to warm up, be wooed and savor the foreplay… Some men think you need amazing technical tricks to be a great lover, and sure, those help; but, most women crave your impeccable presence more than anything to display their body mind and spirit and be wide open to you. To see my full response, check out the full article on The Good Men Project, right  HERE . As their newest columnist, you can continue to find amazing articles likes this and more so continue to check out my column Awaken Your Badass Nobility. You can many of my Q&A videos on YouTube, so please be sure to subscribe to  my channel ! Also, If you have a burning question about love, dating or life in general for me, comment below, or ask me on Twitter  @AllanaPratt  and just use #AllanaQandA. The post Wishful Thinking – What Women Want in Bed appeared first on Allana Pratt . via Allana Pratt http://ift.tt/1FafzpV

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Confident and Vulernable After a Divorce

Q:   How can I be both confident and vulnerable, especially after a break-up – such as a divorce? A: Most of us after a nasty divorce don’t feel safe to let go, and surrender, and be out of control because we have just gone through such a painful experience and we put up these walls to protect ourselves. This wall helps us do things we can control, like our job. If we want to be more in control, we become more confident in our job. We tend to go for things where we can predict the outcome and we know the outcome will not be pain. You have to decide if you are over spending time with your confidence because it doesn’t allow space for him to support you, serve you, contribute to you, adore you – be with you. To see my full response, check out the video on pg. 23 in this month’s Divorce 411, right  HERE .  The video is viewable by placing your cursor over the arrow/play bar then click on the link that appears like 2 paper clips in blue on the lower left. You can also find this video

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Intimate Conversations Highlights with Frank Mondeose

Frank Mondeose is not only sexy and hot, he is amazingly in tune with being alive and connected.  He gives off nothing but positive vibes, that seem to instantly run through you and make you aware of just how amazing you truely are. This interview was so profound and so deep, you will regret not listening to the recording at Intimate Conversations Live .  To dig even deeper, head over to  http://ift.tt/1Aw4t2J . You can learn more about Frank in his bio below. Frank Mondeose is a man on a mission. In 2005 he set out to raise the vibration of the nightlife industry in Montreal and created Monde Osé, a lifestyle brand focused on sensual entertainment and seductive dance events for adults. Monde Osé’s aim is to stimulate attendees’ senses and offer a playground for connection and exploration in a safe and respectful environment. In addition, he is the Québec Director of the very popular Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction; an annual trade show focused on promoting everything to do wi

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - My Daugther is Being Bullied

Question: I am having issues with my daughter’s school. She is currently being bullied. I have spoken to the school, first to her teacher who stated she knew the bullying was taking place, then to the school. No one is doing anything. I have stated that I would just homeschool my child and now they are bullying me! They keep telling me that their school is fine with nice children. What would you do? It never stops. I feel as if people are just here to drain you – grief or no grief. I have not always been happy with my son’s school either. Tremendous bullying took place too and curious, just like your story, they tried to bully me rather than take responsibility. I am not sure if this is public or private, yet my love, there is normally more than one school to choose from. I know it’s a pain in the ass to change, yet sometimes schools just aren’t a fit. Homeschooling is a huge commitment yet perhaps that’s your true desire and this is the Universe’s way of supporting your dream? Con

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Intimate Conversations with Frank Mondeose

This week on Intimate Conversations Live,  I have the pleasure of talking with Frank Mondeose.  He has been thinking outside of the box in regards to love, sex and relationships for over 10 years having intuitively felt the great changes our generation would be part of. This Thursday on Intimate Conversations , Frank and I will discuss how to “raise the vibration,” how singles and couples can live more ecstatic lifestyles, and maybe even a bit about life changing Tantric philosophies.  To learn more about Frank, please visit  http://ift.tt/1efoeBO . The post Intimate Conversations with Frank Mondeose appeared first on Allana Pratt . via Allana Pratt http://ift.tt/1K0FDrQ

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Top 12 Intimacy Tips

What is an Intimacy Expert? Intimacy= into me I see. If you look inside and there’s shame about sex, guilt about having pleasure, fear of being used… these thoughts lead to insecurity, yet also divorce, disease, depression… and tragically, they disconnects us from the most important intimate relationship we could ever have… with our self…cellulite and all… totally at peace in our skin, which is damn sexy. Tell me about your life growing up I’m a small town Canadian girl who hopped on Uncle Phil’s 18 wheeler semi at 19 to make it in Hollywood, and failed, yet I did get a modeling job in Japan. It was there I chose to topless dance. For the first time in my life, I saw it was a choice to see my body as a piece of meat or a work of art. I chose work of art, yet upon returning to the states to complete my degree at Columbia where I graduated cum laude, when people asked What KIND of dancer, I shrank in shame. What sad is that when I lost my respect for my body and sexual nature, I a

Morgana - MORGANA RECOMMENDS: BECOMING AWARE

You know how we all have certain ideas in our head of what success looks like and how we’ll know we “made it”? For many years I’d listen to Lisa Garr’s “Aware Show” on Los Angeles radio, hearing her interview Wayne Dyer, Jack Canfield, Reverend Michael Beckwith, and all the most amazing leaders in personal development, and I’d think to myself, “I want to be on that show!” And I was on that show… for the first time in 2006. Lisa and I have been friends ever since. Her new book “Becoming Aware” is being released by Hay House THIS WEEK!   In her book Lisa shares with you her journey from a near death experience that  left her without the ability to say even a few words, to become a TV and radio talk show host, as well as create her online summits, and so much more that she has never revealed before. The vision for it all, the creation of “The Aware Show” and “Being Aware”, came from this life changing experience that instilled in her a vision and a passion for c

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - My Parents Hate My Girlfriend!

Q:   My parents hate my girlfriend—especially my mother. She is constantly telling me that she doesn’t trust her and that I can do better. My father just sits there. I know I am going to marry this woman—I have already bought the ring. My mother knows as well and just keeps telling me that I am making a huge mistake. My girlfriend is amazing, she is taking everything with stride and is bending over backwards to win them over (see why I want to marry this woman!) What can I do? She doesn’t deserve this. A: Two things: 1) Congratulations on finding a beloved that makes your heart sore to new heights. 2) I am so sorry the two of you have to go through this but I know your bond is a strong as ever. A little food for thought – we are all born into our families but we choose our friends and beloved. While you may have the utmost love and respect for your family, evolving to be in allowance with your parents opinion, while choosing your heart’s desires and dropping into your truth, even in

bosanchez - Remember Your Greatness And Laugh With God Today

             Going home from the beautiful Sagada mountains, we passed by Nueva Vizcaya.        After 8 hours of travelling in our minivan, my boys were hungry.  So we dropped by at a restaurant for lunch.        That was when a funny thing happened: All the managers of the store recognized me.        In their eyes, I was a big celebrity.  It was as though John Lloyd came into the store.  (I must admit, I see a few similarities.  We both have two hands, two feet, two eyes, one nose…)  So they took my photo and asked for my autograph.         That wasn’t all.  One manager told me, “It’s our 10 th  Anniversary and we have this big raffle.  Can you do the honor of picking the grand prize?”  The Department of Trade and Industry representative was there, wearing a nice black coat, looking formal and all.         That was when I realized how ridiculous I looked.         I was on vacation mode.         I was wearing  puruntong  shorts.         I was in a crummy tee-shirt.         I

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Taking Back My Power (and staying out of the dog house)

Question: My wife holds a powerful role at work and often tries to hold the power at home as well. How do I gently and lovingly take my masculine power back without pissing her off? My king, this is an great question! As you know, there is a difference ‘feminine power’ and the true essence of a woman’s femininity. The latter creates change through inspiration not domination. While one feels like emasculation/castration and the other awakens your nobility, makes you feel like the King you are… yes? To see my full response, check out the full article on The Good Men Project, right  HERE . As their newest columnist, you can continue to find amazing articles likes this and more so continue to check out my column Awaken Your Badass Nobility. You can many of my Q&A videos on YouTube, so please be sure to subscribe to  my channel ! Also, If you have a burning question about love, dating or life in general for me, comment below, or ask me on Twitter  @AllanaPratt  and just use #Allana

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Intimate Conversations with Mary Ann Robbat

This week on Intimate Conversations Live, our souls will be healed as I speak with Mary Ann Robbat!  Mary Ann is an Energy Healer, Spiritual Mentor, Shaman, Life Coach & Medium and I am so honored to have her on the show. This Thursday, on Intimate Conversations,  Mary Ann and I will  discuss how to see and sense change in your life and how to make that happen for the positive. To learn more about Mary Ann, please visit  http://ift.tt/1e1BLNo . The post Intimate Conversations with Mary Ann Robbat appeared first on Allana Pratt . via Allana Pratt http://ift.tt/1HdPREI

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - I am constantly fighting with my ex-husband!

Question: I am constantly fighting with my ex-husband! My friends keep telling me to knock it off but somehow he constantly draws me back in. How do I walk away for good? Answer: This can be super challenging when you have kids… do you have kids? If you don’t… girl this is going to be a whole lot easier and if not, write me back again and I’ll give you mores practices to heal this. So if there were no kids And he’s still drawing you back in… here’s a dooooozer of a question… ready? What do you LOVE about fighting with him? At first you might say, NOTHING Allana! And yet if you really look, you might find you want to be right. You want to have the last way. You can’t stand him lying and you have to defend yourself. You can’t stand him poking at you, you have to poke back. You cant stand that he left you and you want to get him back. You can’t stand you left him and feel guilty and thus put up with being abused. You might be scared to be all alone and negative contact is bett

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Intimate Conversations Highlights with Polina Solda

Polina Solda is sexy, soulful, and down right awesome woman.  She shows us how to make sure that people, especially your potential soulmate, see the real you!  Polina and I have spoken on these topics in the past, so we were able to dive deeper and get even more vulnerable this time! This week on Intimate Conversations Live, Polina teaches how to show confidence on both the inside and the outside, while acting like you “already have him.” You won’t want to miss this one.  Please don’t forget to take advantage of her special offer at  http://ift.tt/1Ped7JU . You can learn more about Polina in her bio below. Recognized as a Dating & Relationship expert by the coaching industry, author of the Date with a S. M. I. L. E. Formula book and founder of Find Love and Keep It, Polina Solda helps women who are ready and committed to find love and get into a relationship with the right man. Born and raised in Moscow, Russia and relocated to the U.S. in her early twenties, Polina uniquely

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - My mom’s in love with my personal trainer!

Question: My mother is in love with my personal trainer. She doesn’t know he exists. We think she is making up a relationship in her head. She even took his picture and is showing it to her friends, as if he is her man. What can we do before this gets awkward for everyone? Answer: It’s pretty awkward now! I would look at it first from compassion, that she is so lonely, that she is willing to live in denial and create a fantasy to feel good enough. So if we address this by believing that she is crazy, that would be total judgment and judgment would not get us anywhere when it comes to connecting with her in an honoring way to bring her back to reality and have a conversation about this. So making her wrong is not going to help, having compassion that “Wow, she is really so lonely that she is not operating in reality.” From that place of compassion say “Hey mom, I just wanted to have a talk with you.” I mean maybe, behind your back, she is having sex with the personal trainer so ask

bosanchez - STOP FOR DIRECTIONS

         In my life, I have found three places that give me a deep sense of the presence of God: 1) A scenic mountain with lovely forests; 2) A tranquil beach under a blue sky; 3) And the passenger seat of Roger’s red car.          You see, my friend Roger drives like a mad man.  Once he starts driving, those riding with him instinctively reach for their wallets and tearfully kiss the photos of their loved ones.          Every time I ride with him, my prayer life is enhanced. Deepened.  Invigorated.  It feels as though Heaven becomes so near to my soul.          One fateful day, I was riding with him again.  We were blazing through a highway like a cruise missile.  Roger looked at me and said, “Bo, I have good news and bad news for you.”          “What’s the good news?” I inquired between my Hail Mary’s.          “We’re efficiently moving at an average speed of 140 kph.”          Involuntary spasms shot through my body.  “Are you trying to tell me that we’ll be arriving at our de

Morgana - Morgana Rae on FOX-TV: Teach Your Kids the ABC’s of Spending and Saving

Ever wonder how to speak to your children about money? I was back on FOX-5 News in Vegas last week, this time to answer the question, “How do you teach your children about Spending and Saving?” I love that question! Take a look at my on-air response, and then grab me “cheat sheet” below.     A ffordability : remove the phrases “we can’t afford it” or “we don’t have the money” from your vocabulary. We don’t want to teach kids that money is the monster that gets in the way of what they want to have, do, or be. (This thinking sets up an unhealthy dynamic with money dynamic can have negative consequences in adulthood.) Instead of making money the obstacle to what your child desires, switch the focus to HOW they can raise the money to buy what they want. Teach your child that money is always there if they’re resourceful and committed. (And this is a good mindset for adults, too: we get better results when we believe this.) B rainstorm and Budget —when your child wants something tha

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Intimate Conversations with Polina Solda

This week on Intimate Conversations Live, I get to laugh and learn with Polina Solda! Polina is the founder of Find Love and Keep It, as well as an author telling how to keep on going until you find your one. This Thursday on Intimate Conversations , Polina and I will discuss how to date until you find that perfect mate and have fun doing so!  To learn more about Polina, please visit  http://ift.tt/1zMM8yv . The post Intimate Conversations with Polina Solda appeared first on Allana Pratt . via Allana Pratt http://ift.tt/1QmRhky

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Do I need to be friends with my BF’s hubby to keep my relationship with my BF?

Question: My best friend got married and her new husband and I got along at the beginning. Now, it has been about two years and every time she wants to visit – he is conveniently busy. It doesn’t matter what it is, he somehow finds a way to disappear. Do I need to be friends with him too to keep my relationship with my best friend? Answer: This is curious and I trust your awareness that something’s up or has changed. Yet honestly, I wouldn’t let it bother you. It’s preferable of course that everybody’s one big happy family and yet that’ not really realistic, is it? He could come over and it would be strained or uncomfortable… this way he’s not around and you two have girl time. There must be something you trigger in him, perhaps you’re super confident, you are highly intuitive, maybe he’s shy, or maybe simply your styles of humor are different and he’s not his best self around you. That’s cool. That’s his stuff. I wouldn’t make your friend wrong about it. I wouldn’t take it person

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Intimate Conversations Highlights with Susan Winter

Susan Winter is an empowering woman who is not ashamed of who she loves or why she loves them!  Does the relationship work for you? Yes? Ok then…have no apologies!  Susan reminds us that our lives are our own and our happiness is in our own hands. This week on Intimate Conversations Live, Susan takes us down a hot and spicy path of being in relationships with younger men.  She also speaks to us about how difficult it got at times, and how she overcame that to be happy with whoever she loved regardless of their age.  While you are at it, please check out her offer at  http://ift.tt/1dKIs64 . You can learn more about Susan in her bio below. SUSAN WINTER (Allowing Magnificence and Older Women/Younger Men), is a relationship expert and social futurist specializing in higher thinking for today’s evolving world. She writes, speaks and coaches on cutting-edge partnership models as well as traditional relationship challenges, offering heightened insight from a broader perspective. As a so

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - My boyfriend’s messaging strange women

Question: Do you have any idea why a man would start instant messaging strange woman after being in a five year relationship. Said he was “stupid” and wasn’t physical with anybody. I guess you can say I have trust issues. Answers: Ouch! I am so sorry. Do I have any idea why? Here is what I have learned, first off I am really sorry because that really hurts. If you have trust issues especially, that would hurt and sting even more. So first something about trust and then something about men. Trust: When we trust, it’s not that we trust someone to be perfect. That sets us up for failure because no one is perfect and you can’t control anybody. That is insanity if we try to control another and put all of our power – making sure they be a certain way to so that we are safe. Instead, find that safety and trust inside you. That safety being that capacity to discern and know that come what may, you’ve got your own back – you can take care of yourself. It takes a lot of pressure off of other

Morgana - My “Oh My God! Get Me Off This Ride!” Total Meltdown

I’m sharing my meltdown in the spirit of Transparency… Last month I bought a house. I didn’t even know I was in the market. But then I saw it, and that was that. The house buying process was surprisingly fun and easy, and I even came in $50,000 under budget! It was AFTER the purchase, when we had to actually MOVE into the new place, that I completely fell apart. I’ve had two weeks of panic attacks, crying, grief, regret, trouble breathing, despair, and anxiety. Because all change brings death–death of the old, of who you’ve been, of what you’ve known, of what has worked (and not worked) in the past. Even good change. And I had a lot to grieve. I LOVED the 1927 townhouse I was renting, and the neighborhood I was renting it in. I thought I’d live there for the next 40 years. I also dug that my husband and I had our own separate places–2 blocks apart. We were together every day, but we had a lot of space, too. Ultimately marriage (12 weddings in 12 countries to the same guy, in t