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Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Are my fighting parents the reason I’m single?

Coach Allana Pratt was asked, “My parents fought a lot when I was younger and I feel as if that is the reason why I am 25 and have never been in a relationship. How can I get past this hangup? Sounds like you’re ready to do some healing, love. Great. It’s easy to just stay busy, so I honor you for your willingness to look, feel, breathe and tell the truth. While you may have developed certain beliefs, survival mechanisms and behaviors based on watching your parents fight, let’s not give them power of your life today here and now, yes? Let’s dive in and heal, shift, change and get you back to CHOICE so that you can have a relationship with works for you. Let’s use the context of what they showed you, not as an excuse to hide or doubt or paralyze in fear… instead let’s use it as great information of what you don’t want, so you can choose what you do want, and you can get clear about WHY and then FEEL the feelings of what you choose and move in the direction of that. I am not sure if...

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - How to go from Devastated to Delicious after a Divorce

I remember when my husband and I separated, he went off to NYC to get laid for the weekend. Lovely. Then he married MY female financial advisor who found out a millionaire was on the loose. Ouch. When my clients tell me war stories of him leaving her for a younger woman, her taking him to the cleaners, the betrayals, abandonment and cruelty that goes on, the first thing to help them out of stuck sorrow is to get angry. There is a honoring time and place for authentic tears, yet so many of us stay there FAR too long and become sorry ass victims because it’s not socially acceptable to swear like a sailor, stick pins in a voodoo doll, and get friggen’ pissed! Janet, during a strategy session, regained her power, potency, vibrancy and vitality by just letting ‘er rip! Now I don’t suggest you yell at HIM or HER… that’s abuse, yet let it out! We started hysterically laughing in the end! Standing up for yourself feels AMAZING! Next is ravishing responsibility. Sober genuine honest truth te...

morgana - On Television and Live Workshop in Arizona!

Whew! I’m just back from Turkey (wedding #12 with my husband Devin) and leaving again in a few days… for Arizona! I’m being interviewed early morning on early morning television live in Phoenix on Tuesday, February 24: KPNX – NBC 12, and then I’m being interviewed the next day for Tucson’s “Morning Blend” on KGUN – ABC 9 the next day, February 25. Since I’m going to be in the area, my friend Dan Horner asked me lead a live workshop in Tucson the evening of the 25th… and I said yes! I’ll be teaching “Make MORE Money by Leading with LOVE!” So come on down and meet me in person: http://ift.tt/1LjeyBu via Morgana Rae & Charmed Life Coaching, Inc. http://ift.tt/1FAYJ8T

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - I Envy All Those Empowered Women! I have Low Self Esteem.

You asked Coach Allana Pratt: Allana, I have really low self-esteem. I envy all of these empowered women that have all of this confidence. How can I become more like these women? Sweetness, don’t worry your pretty little head please… a lot of empowered women put on a good show, and are super insecure inside too. And I used to totally have low self esteem, looking to everyone for approval, seeking security even by marrying it! I’ve had sex to be wanted… most of us have given away our power in some way or another to be liked, feel safe, fit in, be wanted. And there is help! How can you be more empowered? First stop the comparing part to the other women… by comparing you’re buying into superior inferior and your whole life you’ll either be a superior bitch or insecure damsel… instead LOVE and CELEBRATE other women. When she rocks her world, say WOW! Awesome for her! I’m having that! That’s for me! Oh yah! Bring it! What would it take for me to shine along side her? The Queendom of We! ...

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - I’ve been married 3 times. Is #4 doomed before it even starts?

You asked Allana: In 14 years, I have been married three times. The first marriage only lasted because we had a child. I couldn’t get out of the second fast enough. We won’t even discuss #3. I think I have met husband # 4 but I am guarded. How do I know all of these failed marriages aren’t my fault – what if #4 is already doomed before it even starts? Yup. You’re definitely broken. Unfixable. God made a mistake with you. NOT!!!!!!!! You are not doomed my love! You’re just a wee challenged like me and many of us in a relationship. Welcome to the planet! That’s what we’re all ultimately here for… relationship with self, with Source, with Other. Don’t judge yourself for marrying every man you’ve slept with (wink xoxo). Many people have way more failed relationships than you, they just haven’t made it official with marriage and divorce. So here’s your homework: What’s the lesson of husband #1? Did you learn it? Was it like me, feeling so insecure that you didn’t really see if he was a g...