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Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Are my fighting parents the reason I’m single?

Coach Allana Pratt was asked, “My parents fought a lot when I was younger and I feel as if that is the reason why I am 25 and have never been in a relationship. How can I get past this hangup?


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Sounds like you’re ready to do some healing, love. Great. It’s easy to just stay busy, so I honor you for your willingness to look, feel, breathe and tell the truth.


While you may have developed certain beliefs, survival mechanisms and behaviors based on watching your parents fight, let’s not give them power of your life today here and now, yes?


Let’s dive in and heal, shift, change and get you back to CHOICE so that you can have a relationship with works for you.


Let’s use the context of what they showed you, not as an excuse to hide or doubt or paralyze in fear… instead let’s use it as great information of what you don’t want, so you can choose what you do want, and you can get clear about WHY and then FEEL the feelings of what you choose and move in the direction of that.


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I am not sure if you are a woman or a man who asked this, yet either way it’s time to go through some deep work. I recommend first and foremost coaching with me. You’ll get the biggest lasting results the fastest this way. Go to the WORK WITH ALLANA section of my website for either my 6 Session Programs or my potent Intensives that blow ME away they are so life changing.


Second would be to do my curriculum and upgrade to two private sessions with it. In the SHOP section of my site, Radiance DVD Curriculum for women and Dear Lover DVD Curriculum for men. This is a 6 week program designed to do with two private sessions to make huge shifts in healing and being confidently vulnerability attractively receptive to quality relationships and divine love.


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Bottom line you could wait until you’re 30 or 40, yet it will be substantially harder to heal by then, marred with more shame of being single. I ask you to connect with your courage and handle this now… for the road ahead is only as good as the beliefs, behaviors, thoughts, energy and being’ness you BE right now… you’re in control of it all. And I sense there is a fabulous series of miracles around the corner, should you boldly choose YES and honor your worth and dreams.


Know I believe in you.

A.

xoxoxo


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