I am totally open to blind dates. I am open to the variety of ways the Universe can bring me love, money, joy, miracles… Who am I to say no as long as it works for me? Yet I don’t do much in life ‘blind’ without checking in with my inner knowing first… So, I keep a look out for a few red flags before meeting someone (and on a blind date or any first date really… I meet in public places, drive myself there and back, always talk to the person first to make sure I enjoy the conversation and Google them to see what I find…always fun when they find out what I DO!!) My first question is always WHO recommended this person? If the recommender is someone who has a crappy relationship, is a total player, in and out of prison, is completely unconscious or negative in life… SO ARE THEIR FRIENDS!!! Seriously, sometimes we get either desperate to meet someone or we give our power away to another’s advice vs. trusting our own guidance… that we’ll go out with someone who’s a total mismatch… Yet if