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Allana - Take your sex life from timidly tame to wondrously wild

I love sex. I love men. I love my body. I love receiving. And I am unwilling to have boring, tame, think about the grocery list sex.


Even a quickie I choose to be fully present, engaged, open and my fullest authentic self. Even if I’m tired and it’s soft slow and mild… I still choose to feel every inch of my skin touched, my heart penetrated, my walls let down.


Sex to me is more than copulation, it’s not just about body parts… it’s a dance, a conversation of energies… and if I’m not fully having ME FIRST… like at home with me, not in my head wondering if he sees my cellulite from that angle… if I’m not enjoying MY body’s capacity to give and receive pleasure… if I’m not at home with my curves, my quirks, my kinky erotic dorky unique self… how can my partner be?


So to take your sex life from timid and tame to wondrous and wild… start with getting yourself in the mood, turn yourself on, fall in love with you, witness you like a Divine Erotic Creature would see you… be in awe of Life and grateful for the time to fill up with pleasure and reveal your most authentic desires.


Then unite with your partner from this place. Let this authentic you, suggest a new location, position, lights on or off, music, outfits, silence or talking… from total celebration of the sexual being you are… play! Enjoy! Risk! Be bold! Be coy! Be YOU!


Wipe the slate clean of thinking you know who your partner is… of whom you think YOU are!! Be curious, vulnerable and watch how that partner you’ve known forever, becomes soooo intriguing… let yourself fall into rapture not needing to know what will happen next. Let this union of bodies, souls, energy and possibilities take you into another realm… let yourself HAVE bliss. It’s your birthright to savor.


And if you think this sounds weird, hard, unattainable for you… and you’re actually willing to dive into the unknown with me to clear whatever is in the way of having it… I am an email away. You CAN have this. Yet you have to CHOOSE it. And then take ACTION to receive it. It’s my luscious pleasure to show the way. xoxo Allana


Allana Pratt – Relationship Coach


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