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Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - The Pillar of Honor- Essential for Intimacy

Your Delicious Body with Allana Pratt and Dr. Dain Heer Most recently, I have been humbled by how I made a few decisions totally dishonoring my moral code, my truth, my knowing. I’m going to go vulnerable heart open revealing in my next book The Reluctant MILF… decisions I made that led to me hiding and punishing myself for having gone against my truth, sentencing myself with a life of hell in a prison… with a Pollyanna happy face on to stay above water, all the time denying this painful truth… why? Because I didn’t believe I could change it. Wrong. We are limitless beings. We can change anything we damn well choose. And the KEY to changing anything is to honor yourself no matter what. Honoring yourself is taking the time to hear your truth, follow your truth, take actions aligned with your truth, a willingness to go against the crowd and be the leader of One if necessary… to honor yourself as the most important person in your world, for you ARE. Now what does that have to do with I

admin - Leaders Create Breakthroughs: The Three Mandates of Leadership

Leadership is about progress: it’s the ability to make things happen, maximize resources and inspire. It’s the capacity to create an environment in which people thrive and results are achieved. It’s the extraordinary quality that solves problems and gets things done. Ultimately, leadership is a choice. It’s a standard, a way of living and a [...] via Anthony Robbins Blog http://training.tonyrobbins.com/2635/leaders-create-breakthroughs-the-three-mandates-of-leadership/

morgana - Recommended Resource: Client Attraction Summit

Because I’m traveling so much, and coaching less than I used to, THIS is my favorite resource to send holistic practitioners to (coaches, healers, heart based entrepreneurs) to learn how to grow their business with integrity and authenticity. And Jesse and Sharla are gifting my community with a FULL SCHOLARSHIP (valued at $997). http://ow.ly/koT0w via Morgana Rae & Charmed Life Coaching http://www.morganarae.com/business-strategy/recommended-resource-client-attraction-summit/

admin - Reasons to be Unreasonable: The 10 Fundamental Powers of Extraordinary Leaders

Leadership is about progress: It’s the ability to make things happen, maximize resources and inspire. It’s the capacity to create an environment in which people thrive and results are achieved. It’s the extraordinary quality that solves problems and gets things done. Ultimately, leadership is the ability to significantly influence the thoughts, feelings, emotions and behaviors [...] via Anthony Robbins Blog http://training.tonyrobbins.com/2610/reasons-to-be-unreasonable-the-10-fundamental-powers-of-extraordinary-leaders/

Jim - “Is Your Time Worth What You Think It Is?” by Ali Brown

Time is the most important asset you have—and unlike money, once you’ve spent it, you can’t earn any more . That’s why it’s so important to make the most of your 24 hours, especially as a business owner. So, how can you become more productive and profitable, without working insane hours and sacrificing your personal life? Read on for a few steps on how to start managing your time like a successful entrepreneur… STEP 1: Discover how much your time is worth The first step to maximizing your time is to understand what yours is really worth. This is an exercise I do with any client who has a time crunch. It’s great to help you gauge what your time is generally worth. (NOTE: This is NOT a formula for determining your rates, but it can be used as a start.): Income ÷ Hours worked = Hourly Rate For example, let’s say your income last month was $16,000 and you worked eight hours a day for 20 days. That’s a total of 160 hours. So, your hourly rate would be calculated like this: $16,000 ÷ 1

admin - The Pyramid of Mastery: Seven Areas of Focus for an Extraordinary Life

As achievers we know that whatever we focus on, we will find a way to achieve. The challenge so many of us face, however, is in finding balance. Even the greatest achievers acknowledge a gap between where they are and where they really want to be. Perhaps our businesses or careers are strong, but our [...] via Anthony Robbins Blog http://training.tonyrobbins.com/2580/the-pyramid-of-mastery-seven-areas-of-focus-for-an-extraordinary-life/

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - What to do when his sex drive is too much for you?

What is a girl supposed to do when his sex drive is more robust than yours? Do you have to keep up or should he slow down? Neither. Or both. It’s a dance. Notice the most amazing dance performances with couples… they both don’t do the same thing all the time, right? One has a solo, then the other. Sometimes it’s intense, other times slow and sweet. The first thing is to destroy the judgment that something is wrong… nothing’s wrong! You’re just doing a new dance! For me, if I think I have to perform, reach orgasm and he wants that and wants sex all the time, it’s a lot of pressure! Yet what if he wants to devour me, please me, pleasure me, and all I have to do is receive? And whatever happens …happens? Be willing to create what works for you here. A guest expert on my show Intimate Conversations LIVE Amy Smith told me that her and her husband have a rule… if one is in the mood and the other isn’t, first they ask, Can I get you in the mood? (Which means really be willing to look insi

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - After the Drama is Over, Why Am I So Bored?

Have you ever known people who fight, then get back together, fight then get back together… it’s like they live for make-up sex. They never seem to get out of the roller coaster cycle. They seem addicted to the drama, thinking passion is actually love. It’s not. On the journey to more awareness and consciousness, it’s sure as hell better to be angry than hopeless, depressed and apathetic. At least you’re alive. Yet life sucks being angry, stressed, a victim and blaming. Not so sexy. Yet once my clients (and me too) end the cycle of anger toward self or others, those judgments dissolved away, a relief comes that can feel boring. Literally our hormone receptors have been created and are seeking the ‘juice’ of an adrenal high, fight or flight, let me kill the tiger called my boyfriend. Let me ride the pleasure pain roller coaster one more time so I feel enough, chosen, valiant, alive. God how exhausting. Yet when the drama is gone and the relief passed, and it’s all quiet in the mind,

jesse - The BEST Business I know…

Years ago, I decided to sell my first little e-book. Humble as it was, I remember being so nervous about posting it for sale online that I thought my heart would beat out of my chest! But my fears quickly dissipated when I saw order after order stack up in my email inbox, while I was out at the gym. And most of you know the rest… I grew that great little income stream of an extra few hundred dollars a month into what is today a multimillion-dollar business. Right now, women and men of all ages, businesses, and backgrounds are making money online with info-publishing (also called “information marketing” or “info-products”). Every day, revenues are generated with every topic under the sun —raw food recipes, meeting your mate, losing weight, financial planning, talking with angels, interior decorating… you name it. I’ve talked about this topic for years and taught it as part of my more extensive courses—and I want to make sure you know that I also have a free report that’s all about cre

jesse - “Your Easy 3-Step Sales Funnel” (PART 3 of 3) by Ali Brown

PART 3: Your Sales (The Conversion) If you misread that as “conversation”, then you’re right too. Sales today is more about having a conversation with your leads, versus the old way of shoving your offer in their face. (I like … (Click here to read more...) via Ali Brown - Entrepreneur Mentor Featured on ABC's Secret Millionaire", Small Business Coach and Consultant for Women http://www.alibrown.com/blog/2013/04/11/%e2%80%9cyour-easy-3-step-sales-funnel%e2%80%9d-part-3-of-3-by-ali-brown/

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Is this relationship doomed from the beginning?

I swear the most important thing we can ever do for ourselves is to become conscious. We don’t have a hope in hell of making good choices until we clear away the judgments blocking our truth. I didn’t purposely go out and get married and divorced twice. I didn’t set out to destroy those relationships. I didn’t set out to be hurt or judged. And yet in doing my ‘work’ on myself to become conscious, aware and responsible, now I can see that I was totally insecure, seeking that connection, validation, acknowledgement and celebration of me that I didn’t receive as a child. Mom and Dad did their best. Yet Dad was drunk and stoned and mom was kind of checked out keeping it together the best she knew how, eventually overeating, stuffing her anger, getting liver cancer and dying at 60. Dad is sober and has been for about a decade, yet I wouldn’t have his relationship for a godzillion dollars. So a relationship is doomed from the beginning if you’re not present, seeking ‘enoughness’ from deca

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Did you have a one night stand that you regret?

One night stands. Such shame around them. Such a deep topic rich with insights and possibilities… With the clients I have who were single, not dating and had a one night stand and feel ashamed… I ask why? Was it fun? Great! Were you honored? Great! Did you grow, expand and learn about yourself? Great! Were they grateful for you, your body, your beauty, your self expression? Great! The one night stands only seemed to hurt when people were NOT honored, didn’t have fun, the other wasn’t grateful for them, it was passionately unconscious and addictive, not joyously a CHOICE on both parties. So I encourage you to release shame about a one night stand and ask what’s right about it that it’s trying to show you. That you crave more touch? That you love sex and it’s time to let go of the judgment around that? That you use sex as a manipulation and it’s time to let that go? That you choose a long term relationship and it gave you context to know that? That it was fun and it’s time to release

admin - Making the Impossible Possible: The Five Elements of a Breakthrough

There are two types of people: 1. Those who get results and 2. those with stories about why they didn’t achieve what they wanted. Although we can’t control the events that happen in our lives, we can control how we respond to them. It’s these choices that we make—especially during challenging times when many things [...] via Anthony Robbins Blog http://training.tonyrobbins.com/2529/making-the-impossible-possible-the-five-elements-of-a-breakthrough/

lynda - “Your Easy 3-Step Sales Funnel” (PART 2 of 3) by Ali Brown

STEP 2: Your leads (the invitation) Once people discover you and your business, your next objective is to get them on your list. This is when they move to step 2—the middle of your funnel—and they become a lead. When … (Click here to read more...) via Ali Brown - Entrepreneur Mentor Featured on ABC's Secret Millionaire", Small Business Coach and Consultant for Women http://www.alibrown.com/blog/2013/04/05/%e2%80%9cyour-easy-3-step-sales-funnel%e2%80%9d-part-2-of-3-by-ali-brown/

admin - Building Your Control Model: Where Do You Spend Your Time?

Focusing on variables beyond your control can be a drain on your time, your thoughts, your emotions and your clarity. Fulfilled, happy people are aware of what’s beyond their control, and they don’t allow it to create stress. When an outside event affects their lives, they quickly discern, “Is this something I can control? Is [...] via Anthony Robbins Blog http://training.tonyrobbins.com/2511/building-your-control-model-where-do-you-spend-your-time/

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Mike I Adore You…..Here is My Answer!

OOOhhhhh… delicious Mike- I adore you and adore this question!!! I would say there is a very unconscious way to live, where our insecurities or filling the void that was never met in childhood, is running the show and we’re attracted to people who will ultimately not honor us (my first and second marriages!) Yet once we bring consciousness, awareness, responsibility and CHOICE into the equation, we can literally CHOOSE a person who will honor us, cherish us, celebrate us, expand us, support us, grow with us and more… then I believe you let it go and let the Universe have its way with you! Mike in my younger days I was attracted to men who judged me… and if I could get them to like me, love me, choose me… well then I was enough! You know how THAT story went. Now, I am actually turned on by a sexy man who cares for me, is kind, tender, thoughtful… someone in the past I might have thought was just a nice guy. Now the lesson for YOU in who you’re being… is to KEEP the wonderful kind man

jesse - My friend “The Millionaire Maker”…

You may have heard me talk about my friend Loral Langemeier, known as “The Millionaire Maker”. (This is one woman who truly walks her talk, sharing she’s created 1,039 millionaires in the last 10 years alone.) We ladies are rocking … (Click here to read more...) via Ali Brown - Entrepreneur Mentor Featured on ABC's Secret Millionaire", Small Business Coach and Consultant for Women http://www.alibrown.com/blog/2013/04/04/my-friend-%e2%80%9cthe-millionaire-maker%e2%80%9d/

admin - Decisions and Destiny: Three Decisions that can Change Your Life

What makes the difference in the quality of people’s lives? What is the single factor that shapes and controls our ultimate destiny? Most people think that biography is destiny, that the past equals the future. And you know what? It can—but only if you live there. Any study of history shows that the difference in [...] via Anthony Robbins Blog http://training.tonyrobbins.com/2487/decisions-and-destiny-three-decisions-that-can-change-your-life/

Set Financial Goals: Budgeting For Your Business Operations - Brian Tracy

One of the most important skills of the entrepreneur is the ability to prepare budgets and accurate financial forecasts for their business. Your ability to set financial goals for sales, expenses, and profits is a true measure of your ability to succeed in your business operations. Visual Description of Business Operations The purpose of the budget is to give you a visual description of the expected financial results of your business operations . The budget should cover 12-24 months of business operations. You can start with the paper spreadsheets that you fill out with a pencil. You can use computer programs like Excel that enable you to change numbers quickly. You should work out a complete budget before beginning business operations. You should review, revise and update your budgets and financial goals for the next twelve months, each month. Four Major Numbers A basic business budget contains four major numbers: Projected sales and revenue; projected total costs of achievin