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Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Dating and Scared to get Hurt Again

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QUESTION: I’ve been emailing with a girl that I met on a dating site for a few months. We’ve recently began talking on the phone and texting. I REALLY like everything about her so far, but I am scared. How do I know if she’s the real deal and worth hopping on a plane to meet? I don’t want to be set up for disappointment again.


ANSWER: Good news and bad news. Which do you want first?


Good? You are AWESOME and you’re emailing a girl and are considering meeting her!


Bad news? You can’t ever protect yourself from being hurt. YET you can change having another person’s opinion about you holding so much power! You rock no matter what happens. Let’s connect and heal whatever’s going on inside that is hiding your inner confidence and peace with being you, no matter what the circumstances.



~ Allana xoxo


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