Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Which Should I Choose? The BF or the Dog?

Question: Before my boyfriend, my favorite companion was my dog. My boyfriend has always been kind to her; however, we have been talking about moving in together and he keeps picking places that don’t allow pets. Is he making me choose?

Answer: I can sense the exclusion of Cleo in your future plans has hurt your feelings, yes? Have you talked to him about it? Is it possible he may harbor some sort of resentment, feeling left out or overshadowed? My sweet, you may not have to choose but be in allowance of his needs, evolving your way of communicating and helping your relationship grow closer.

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