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Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - He’s Getting a Divorce. Date Him or Run for It?

Q: Allana, I’m 54, divorced, and finally re-entering the dating scene.  I recently met a nice man who is currently going through a divorce. Having survived my own divorce, I know what he is experiencing and don’t want to be his rebound or reminder of one of the worst times in his life. I know I am being negative and it could be just the opposite but should I still date him or walk away?

Answer: This is such a sensational question! I love it! Ok, let’s look at this from a few angles and break it down a little.  First, you shouldn’t be dating while getting a divorce.  This is a time of grieving, reflection, healing, and growing – not a time of avoidance.

To see my full response, check out the full article on Digital Romance, right HERE. You can also find videos of other topics on YouTube, so please be sure to subscribe to Digital Romance TV.

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