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Allana - Emotional Baggage? Can we please ditch it and SOAR into 2013!

OK, totally going to bust myself on this one.


So my ex done me wrong.


I knew the story to a tee.


I didn’t make much room for him to show up any other way.


When people asked about him, I always had a poor me with a kumbaya happy face story about it.


And in my deepest heart I had given up on ever having it resolved, ever having peace, ever feeling free.


Certain scary at the time legal circumstances unfolded and I chose to show up in court to speak my truth. Not defend myself for it was all lies. Yet I COULD have responded like a victim, taken the bate, lost my center, but I didn’t. I was the pinnacle of sanity, great motherhood and bold truth.


And I won.


And I noticed I had been living in a prison of my own making all those years.


All I had to do was shift my focus to my north star, what I was creating, let him be an ‘interesting point of view’ in my life and move the f*&$ on.


Emotional baggage? I had convicted myself in Folson Level 4 prison!


AND I set myself free. I did that. We can all do that.


Now I am stunned to share that we are getting along Great.


What’s different is that I don’t care.


Not like a bitchy attitude, more an unattached energy where he no longer dictates my happiness. Happiness is my choice. And I’m choosing it and creating more and more of it. Even if it gets SOOO good that I question if I deserve it… I STILL open my heart and receive.


So let me be clear, if you have emotional baggage, ANY kind, ANY thing, ANY one… you can let it go and be free to create your life.


Dare ya.


Never been happier.


I choose to provide that bridge into a new dimension for you.


It’s soooo possible, without all the expensive drama I went through.


Save time, money and heartache. Clear what’s holding you back.


That’s what LOVE would do.


Huge love, Allana


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