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Morgana - Not getting results? Get Honest.

Just yesterday, a new visitor to my website wrote to me:

“How do I make money appear in my life?  I try only thinking about having it instead of “not” having it….but that is hard when you are in financial crisis each week.”

Money Flying

Here are my thoughts:

I think we’ve been sold a bill of goods.

Well intentioned people will tell you that if you think positive, raise your vibration, say affirmations, practice the “law of attraction,” only focus on good feelings and have enough faith, the money fairy will come along and make you rich.

And if you’re feeling scared and broke and facing a “financial crisis” every week, these friends are essentially telling you to lie to yourself.

But hey, if it works, do it.

It’s never worked for me.

I vote for total honesty. If you’re in financial crisis every week, and it feels like nothing you’re doing is working, get ANGRY!

There’s a lot of pent up energy in anger, and you want to access it.

Get angry at money.

Get angry at all the people who sold you programs or books or solutions that didn’t change your life.

Get angry at yourself for all the times you didn’t follow through or didn’t take care of yourself or didn’t get the results you wanted.

Get angry at any body who ever hurt your feelings or lied to you or let you down.

Get angry at life.

Now you’re getting an accurate picture of your current relationship with money, and why you push it away…

Especially if you’re doing everything “right” and still not getting ahead.

This is the first step to making the change we want.

We can’t change something without facing it first. In Alchemy we call it “negridio”– the blackening. The first step to changing lead into gold…

If you want to change your relationship with money, you need to see what you’re wanting to change it from. This gives you the CLARITY and MOTIVATION to do whatever it takes to end the patterns that no longer serve you.

And here’s a secret: these patterns have also served you very well. There’s always a pay off. And that pay off has served you, or the pattern wouldn’t be here. The sooner you can identify the pay off, the sooner you can get those needs met in a better way that doesn’t push away what you want to attract.

And hopefully your pain and pain and revulsion with your current situation is great enough to break with the past. Embrace it. Don’t push it away. You are big enough to face it head on.

This is the fuel for your transformation.

 

*Please post your thoughts and “aha!” moments below. Namaste y’all!

 

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