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Allana - Do Holidays Bring Regret or Possibility?

I know it’s only October but with the holidays drawing closer I can already feel the heaviness descending upon many people about what they HAVEN’T accomplished this year… giving up way before the finish line!


I find that staunch goals are heavy themselves. Yet moving targets are just that, moving and thus our energy can more easily move with them in inspiration.


I had a wild ride of co-hosting Secrets of the Red Carpet and moving into hosting my own Webisode Series Living Sexy. It didn’t happen for various reasons and I could look at that with shame, embarrassment or gratitude, for all the things I learned and for deeper clarity with what I choose the deal to look like for it to be a YES for me. Huge learning curve and I’m far better for it! I could choose regret that it didn’t happen or I could choose to ask what else is Possible?


What’s cool is that, because I’ve asked What else is Possible… a wonderful opportunity with The Moms View moms is in talks… this would be something already moving… a wave I could catch… ease… support already in place, sponsors already in place… I see that by opening the door vs. closing it in regret has brought this in.


As you round out this wonderful year… where can you let go of society’s pressure to reach your goal or else you failed mentality… and instead courageously open a door to a new reality by asking what else is possible? Let me know what unfolds


xooxox Allana


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