You wanna know something? I’ve never done this. I’ve always known I wanted to take someone to bed right away. And either did. Or was shot down and didn’t. I’ve never ever gone from friendship to lover… and yet I do know people who were friends for years and then one day… they looked at one another differently and whoosh… timing aligned, lives aligned, and one became single again… and sparks flew. So in terms of HOW to shift from friends to lover… it may sound trite but just be real and tell the truth. How is living your truth a risk? Why would being authentic be a risk? If they are truly a friend, why would there be a concern for being real? To me it would be much more contractive, painful, inauthentic and awful to lie, to withhold, to pretend and be fake. If they say no, you are still you, fabulous and amazing. If they say yes, you are still you, fabulous and amazing. Stop letting either yes or no define you. Be sure to check in, are you giving them all the power? Are you letting t