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Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - How Midlife Single Women Can Meet Mr. Right

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As an Intimacy Expert and single mom myself, I know this topic well.

One things stands out, our Point of View Creates the Reality We See!

If you believe there are few good men, you are right. Yet if you say there are too many men to choose from, your posture changes, you become open, magnetic and approachable to men.

If you believe you’re in competition with younger women, you are also right. Yet if you see yourself like a fine wine, getting more valuable, sexy, hot and erotic with age, you will have a swing in your hips, an allure to your smile, a confidence in the way you look men right in the eye that makes a great men’s heart soar.

(many male clients tell me they would MUCH rather an older woman who knows she’s an erotic creature than a young woman who keeps asking if she looks fat in those jeans…)

If you believe you intimidate men, you are right again. If you know you are successful and yet adore when a man opens the door for you, love being interested vs interesting (i.e. listening more than talking) and welcome a man that loves to support you shining in your career, yet also adores you love to surrender in the bedroom and praise his masculine leadership (even if it’s just in how he drives a car)… men will find you seductive, not needy and thank God, not a gold digger.

Honestly, I used to be attracted to (OK, and marry) older men for the insecure part of me wanted to be saved. Yup. Divorce. Now I am so vulnerably authentically at peace with who I am, celebrating my delicious erotic nature, honoring my sacred sexuality, that men 10-14 yrs younger are pursuing me in addition to men my own age or older. I am told that I let them ‘win’, that I appreciate their time, efforts, gifts, kindness. I am a flirt, I keep in shape pole dancing and doing pilates… and a paddle board when I find one. And most of all, I LOVE MEN.

This may be my most potent piece of advice and a reason why my clients meet GREAT MEN FAST once they do my intimacy and sensual empowerment work… men can smell a woman who hates men. And they can also pick a woman out of a crowd who LOVE men. Who do you think they will feel honored and respected by? Bingo. Do your inner work, ladies, to heal your heart from the betrayals or abuse you’ve experienced, dissolve any shame about your sacred erotic sexual nature, so your practices to feel juicy and vibrant and then enjoy choosing WHICH man works for you, your future,  your dreams.

And until he arrives… stick around with women who think the same… your attitude, mindset and heart openness will make him miss you… or make you stand out like the brilliant Luscious Light you are.

Allana

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