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Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - The Art of Flirting

I am so honored that Liz Leia of the Art of Flirting asked to interview me about a classy sexy way women could flirt.

I love this topic and I shared so much about it for an hour on her blog talk show that you can listen to right here:

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Basically flirting in the way I explain allows a woman to be so confident and completely unattached to the outcome, which makes her irresistible.

When you flirt to get attention, to get love etc, you always come across needy or manipulative. However if you flirt to connect and contribute and fill up your tank to overflow… then you’re classy, authentic, sexy and desirable.

For example, I flirt as a way to praise an older man that he’s handsome, to acknowledge that a woman’s purse is super stylish, to champion a child’s honoring behavior toward it’s mother. Then when I get to a hot man my own age who would normally make me nervous to talk to, I’m so practiced engaging with people and looking for what to appreciate, that it’s easy once I get to him.

And I don’t wait around for his agreement or opinion of what I share… I just keep on being happy, connecting with people and let him chase me. If he doesn’t, even when I set him up to win showing I was interested… then no loss… he’s not into me or courageous enough to claim me so bless him and release him. Yet if he does follow me, then I know he’s interested and I know he appreciates my authentic nature and we can engage in more dialogue.

I also flirt with animals, with the breeze, the sunshine, the earth beneath my feet… I’m in as consistent gratitude as I can muster all day long, counting my blessings, beaming my joy, feeling juicy and being attractive to men… happy wife, happy life, right? Men are much more likely to approach a woman who is already happy for the change of keeping her happy is pretty high!

Lastly, I flirt like this to feel connected to God. When I finish praising the earth or people, I often ask, how can it get even more delicious than this? How can it get even more juicy, connected, fabulous, magical than this? And it does. Because I ask. And this makes me know the Universe is listening and responding which makes me never feel alone.

You could even ask, What magical surprises await me today from flirting with humanity? You never know if some old lady with blue hair has a hunk of a grandson! Flirt and have a fabulous time being alive and luscious! xoxo Allana

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