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Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Why Women Are Attracted to Dangerous Men

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We get stuck in time, in our development.

Daddy never paid attention, was preoccupied, drunk or abusive.

Mommy never celebrated us, was competitive, jealous of attention you got over her.

Clients such as top lawyers, Olympic athletes, stunning artists… it doesn’t matter. Many successful women seek abusive men.

When a parent didn’t provide a sense of safety, value, honor, enough’ness, kindness or presence… unless the person is AWARE of this subconscious desire to fulfill on what their parents didn’t provide (and willing to do the inner work to heal this)… they will be addicted to dangerous men and literally choose to subject themselves to the same abuse they experienced in childhood, over and over again, unless intervention occurs.

The good news is that these ‘voids’ inside the being, the heart, the soul, the person can be healed, changed and a new healthy behavior can be created in a relatively short period of time. A new pathway of communication with the Field, with the Universe, with God is re-established… and the abusive tendency vanishes. I’ve seen miracles occur in my clients and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt, that change is possible. And healthy relationships are possible.

The client simply needs to be wiling for change. And to be willing to demand of themselves to do whatever it takes to change it. Then grace, guided through repeatable processes, provides the change they seek.

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