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Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert - Had The Strangest Dream

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Question: I had the strangest dream last night with my husband, an ex-boyfriend from college, and my ex-fiance. In my dream – my ex-fiance still hasn’t forgiven me and I was taking care of my ex-boyfriend and even said “boyfriend” at one point before correcting myself. What does all of this mean?

Answer: What a curious dream indeed! On my radio show called Intimate Conversations Live, I’ve had a repeat guest named Kelly Sullivan Walden who is a dream coach and has a wonderful book called “I had the strangest dream.”

First, I would recommend getting that book and having it by your bed so first thing when you wake up you can always use it to guide you. What Kelly has taught me is that every aspect of our dream is an aspect of ourselves. And that the emotional tone of a dream speaks volumes to the growth and healing that’s going on in your subconscious.

I wonder if you’ve forgiven yourself in entirety about your ex fiancé and if not, if it’s in the way of you being more fully present with your husband?

I wonder if taking care of your ex-boyfriend is an indication that it’s time to take care of a part of you that feels wounded or misunderstood or hasn’t felt safe to show up in the world?

Definitely unresolved issues of the past seem to be coming up so that you can have a more powerful present with your husband.

Are you OK and in allowance and acceptance and truly unconditionally loving of your decisions in the past?

Or are you judging yourself, feeling regret or needing to justify your choices in the past?

I imagine together we could get to the root of what’s going on and not only that, see what healing work or evolution is being invited in your life and marriage, so we could create a plan on how to take your awareness, connection to self, marriage, and life to the next level :-)

And if you’re super happy, totally self expressed, evolving in better and better all the time with your husband and you feel absolutely complete with the past and haven’t given a second thought to your ex boyfriend or ex fiancé except for this dream, maybe you were just picking up on their emotions and it has nothing to do with you. Only you will know :-)

Sending you so much love! Allana xox

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